Colinski282
Don Juan
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Are a dozen pink roses and a teddy bear enough or too much for a friend of 6 months and now are dating for 3 months? Dozen pinks cost 50 and a teddy bear isnt much at all.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Congratulations! You just became every other guy! BORING.Are a dozen pink roses and a teddy bear enough or too much for a friend of 6 months and now are dating for 3 months? Dozen pinks cost 50 and a teddy bear isnt much at all.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You want this pimpest idea that will cost you about $8.00?? Ok go to the local drug store. Pick up a bunch of candy bars, a poster board and a permenant marker and some scotch tape. The candy bars are going to be the words describing your gf and the rest of the words are up to you. For example:Originally posted by Colinski282
heh well what would u do for valentines day
or you might end up with an imprint of her name on your forehead! lolOriginally posted by Desdinova
Get her a frying pan with her name engraved on it. If she can cook, you'll reap the benefits from that frying pan. If she can't cook, it'll motivate her to learn![]()
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.