"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Double Your Dating by David DeAngelo- Thoughts?

Sofomore

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Have any of you read this? I feel like this is one of the best overall guides to over coming you AFC tendencies. I am currently reading it through for the second time and I really love what I am reading. I'll admit I didn't pay for it (thanks internet), but I am considering throwing this guy some money for b!tch-slapping the AFC out of me. :yes:

If you are fairly new to this site, I'd suggest checking it out. It's very interesting and spot on.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Worth reading. DD is one of the pioneers and the creator of C+F.
 

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I've always hated it myself. It does have some snippets that are very valuable and teaches the basics of overcoming your AFC traits, but it's a bit too extreme and leans towards mysogyny.

I also find his examples and hypothetical scenarious very far fetched and detached from reality. DD was my first contact with PUA/Seduction material and it led me into a very bad and confusing place. I was trying to be someone I was not, I was being rude to people, defensive and bitter towards women and started driving people away.

Even worse was when I started looking at Ross Jeffries material. I totally humiliated myself there.

If you're looking for a good book to read on seduction I highly recommend Carlos Xuma's Secrets of the Alpha Male. It covers the basics very well and doesn't go into the extremes or the fantasy of many PUA/Seduction books.
 

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bigneil said:
Worth reading. DD is one of the pioneers and the creator of C+F.
He didn't invent it, he just gave it a name.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Jariel said:
I highly recommend Carlos Xuma's Secrets of the Alpha Male.
Agreed the dude has some good stuff.
 

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Check Out My Techs

de stefano is crap doesn t work having said that it s worked for him the guy s is rolling in it


check out my latest threads ALphAROMEO there u you ll find what works

first you got to address shyness
how to have guy beat his downing and his supposed ugliness

second
using the same opener all the time that is conducive to real great convos bteween the male and the female THE OPENER in question is A KILLER
 

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There is nothing on Double Dating that you can't find on SS, why pay for something that should be free.
 
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