"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Double Your Dating by David DeAngelo- Thoughts?

Sofomore

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Have any of you read this? I feel like this is one of the best overall guides to over coming you AFC tendencies. I am currently reading it through for the second time and I really love what I am reading. I'll admit I didn't pay for it (thanks internet), but I am considering throwing this guy some money for b!tch-slapping the AFC out of me. :yes:

If you are fairly new to this site, I'd suggest checking it out. It's very interesting and spot on.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Worth reading. DD is one of the pioneers and the creator of C+F.
 

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I've always hated it myself. It does have some snippets that are very valuable and teaches the basics of overcoming your AFC traits, but it's a bit too extreme and leans towards mysogyny.

I also find his examples and hypothetical scenarious very far fetched and detached from reality. DD was my first contact with PUA/Seduction material and it led me into a very bad and confusing place. I was trying to be someone I was not, I was being rude to people, defensive and bitter towards women and started driving people away.

Even worse was when I started looking at Ross Jeffries material. I totally humiliated myself there.

If you're looking for a good book to read on seduction I highly recommend Carlos Xuma's Secrets of the Alpha Male. It covers the basics very well and doesn't go into the extremes or the fantasy of many PUA/Seduction books.
 

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bigneil said:
Worth reading. DD is one of the pioneers and the creator of C+F.
He didn't invent it, he just gave it a name.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Jariel said:
I highly recommend Carlos Xuma's Secrets of the Alpha Male.
Agreed the dude has some good stuff.
 

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Check Out My Techs

de stefano is crap doesn t work having said that it s worked for him the guy s is rolling in it


check out my latest threads ALphAROMEO there u you ll find what works

first you got to address shyness
how to have guy beat his downing and his supposed ugliness

second
using the same opener all the time that is conducive to real great convos bteween the male and the female THE OPENER in question is A KILLER
 

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There is nothing on Double Dating that you can't find on SS, why pay for something that should be free.
 
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