"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Double Your Dating by David DeAngelo- Thoughts?

Sofomore

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Have any of you read this? I feel like this is one of the best overall guides to over coming you AFC tendencies. I am currently reading it through for the second time and I really love what I am reading. I'll admit I didn't pay for it (thanks internet), but I am considering throwing this guy some money for b!tch-slapping the AFC out of me. :yes:

If you are fairly new to this site, I'd suggest checking it out. It's very interesting and spot on.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Worth reading. DD is one of the pioneers and the creator of C+F.
 

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I've always hated it myself. It does have some snippets that are very valuable and teaches the basics of overcoming your AFC traits, but it's a bit too extreme and leans towards mysogyny.

I also find his examples and hypothetical scenarious very far fetched and detached from reality. DD was my first contact with PUA/Seduction material and it led me into a very bad and confusing place. I was trying to be someone I was not, I was being rude to people, defensive and bitter towards women and started driving people away.

Even worse was when I started looking at Ross Jeffries material. I totally humiliated myself there.

If you're looking for a good book to read on seduction I highly recommend Carlos Xuma's Secrets of the Alpha Male. It covers the basics very well and doesn't go into the extremes or the fantasy of many PUA/Seduction books.
 

Htienvu

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bigneil said:
Worth reading. DD is one of the pioneers and the creator of C+F.
He didn't invent it, he just gave it a name.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Jariel said:
I highly recommend Carlos Xuma's Secrets of the Alpha Male.
Agreed the dude has some good stuff.
 

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Check Out My Techs

de stefano is crap doesn t work having said that it s worked for him the guy s is rolling in it


check out my latest threads ALphAROMEO there u you ll find what works

first you got to address shyness
how to have guy beat his downing and his supposed ugliness

second
using the same opener all the time that is conducive to real great convos bteween the male and the female THE OPENER in question is A KILLER
 

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There is nothing on Double Dating that you can't find on SS, why pay for something that should be free.
 
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