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Master Don Juan
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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
The only way this won't work is if she didn't really like you in the first place. And frankly...if she doesn't like you, there's nothing you can do to change that.Originally posted by insomniac
I tried this Friday with a girl I had been out a few times. Next day she tells me she's not feeling the chemistry and we're too different. :crackup: Guess I only doubled her interest level from 5 to 10%.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
That was my point. She didn't like me enough to have the way I kissed her make any difference. She got into it every other time we kissed, which is the part that confuses me. I don't know about women, but I don't kiss if I'm not interested in them to a significant degree.Originally posted by Wyldfire
The only way this won't work is if she didn't really like you in the first place. And frankly...if she doesn't like you, there's nothing you can do to change that.
Something must have changed between the two times you kissed. Most likely she met someone else that she's more interested in. It happens sometimes.Originally posted by insomniac
That was my point. She didn't like me enough to have the way I kissed her make any difference. She got into it every other time we kissed, which is the part that confuses me. I don't know about women, but I don't kiss if I'm not interested in them to a significant degree.
Yeah, but best not to wonder. I got suspicious things weren't going well that night when she kept checking her watch and going to the bathroom every thirty minutes or so. No point in wondering why anymore...I've moved on. End of subject.Originally posted by Wyldfire
Something must have changed between the two times you kissed. Most likely she met someone else that she's more interested in. It happens sometimes.
ha ha ha, mate she was checking her watch because you didnt get up to much with her... did she look bored???????Originally posted by insomniac
Yeah, but best not to wonder. I got suspicious things weren't going well that night when she kept checking her watch and going to the bathroom every thirty minutes or so. No point in wondering why anymore...I've moved on. End of subject.![]()
Yeah, probably. We were sitting at a piano bar watching them play. I'd get closer to her and touch her from time to time, but I think it was over before it began. Talking to her was a pain in the ass, as she'd never say anything...just ask me whatever I asked her back. Doesn't matter much anymore.Originally posted by catch
ha ha ha, mate she was checking her watch because you didnt get up to much with her... did she look bored???????
if you stop advancing and making further, more intimate moves then she will start looking at her watch and going to the bathroom alot becuase she has nothing better to do man!
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
HES VERY RIGHT!!! Do not do this on a girl that you dont intend on being with, I made the mistake of doing this on a girl I met. I wasnt really all that interested in her but I did it anyways. I TOOK ME 3 MONTHS TO GET THAT CLINGER OFF. Be careful.Wyldfire said:Okay, let's face it...how you kiss a woman can either make or break your image in her eyes. You can use this simple technique to sweep a woman off her feet and double her interest level in you. Use this technique wisely and only on women you want to really fall for you. Don't use it on someone you don't want to keep around or you'll never get rid of her.
When you go in for the kiss, put your hands on her neck and very gently caress her. Start the kiss off softly, still gently stroking her neck, and running your fingers through her hair at the nape of her neck. Very softly and slowly part her lips with your tongue. Don't put your tongue too far into her mouth...just a little bit in and work it very slowly and without much pressure. A kiss like this makes a woman weak in the knees. Save the hard passionate kisses for later on down the line. Use this more erotic kind of kiss to keep her thinking of you until you see her again.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
He is a she, which is why a posse of posters and even a mod ganged up on her relentlessly until her fighting back got her banned as she was deemed "too controversial", yet none of the mods would enforce the rules on the ones continuously flaming and harassing her first. You can do a post history search of her last few weeks on the forum to see this in action.scribblec said:why is he banned
yea i didnt realise it was a her, the tip was golden tbhiqqi said:He is a she, which is why a posse of posters and even a mod ganged up on her relentlessly until her fighting back got her banned as she was deemed "too controversial", yet none of the mods would enforce the rules on the ones continuously flaming and harassing her first. You can do a post history search of her last few weeks on the forum to see this in action.
It is a shame she was banned, seeing as she contributed some great tips, and is even in the DJ Bible, unlike some of her attackers.
scribblec said:yea i didnt realise it was a her, the tip was golden tbh
time to search and see what happened
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.