dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
nice.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Double her interest level with one kiss...
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Sorry for not noticing all the questions...I see that someone answered them, though...and he answered them right, so it's all good.
I didn't know this post was used for a bootcamp...
It's a good technique, though...and if done correctly, it will never fail.
I didn't know this post was used for a bootcamp...
It's a good technique, though...and if done correctly, it will never fail.
cfajason
Don Juan
A girl kissed me like this once....i still remember her...after that kiss,i started doing this myself,it works like a charm
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
That was my point. She didn't like me enough to have the way I kissed her make any difference. She got into it every other time we kissed, which is the part that confuses me. I don't know about women, but I don't kiss if I'm not interested in them to a significant degree.
Yeah, but best not to wonder. I got suspicious things weren't going well that night when she kept checking her watch and going to the bathroom every thirty minutes or so. No point in wondering why anymore...I've moved on. End of subject.
catch
Senior Don Juan
ha ha ha, mate she was checking her watch because you didnt get up to much with her... did she look bored???????Originally posted by insomniac
Yeah, but best not to wonder. I got suspicious things weren't going well that night when she kept checking her watch and going to the bathroom every thirty minutes or so. No point in wondering why anymore...I've moved on. End of subject.
if you stop advancing and making further, more intimate moves then she will start looking at her watch and going to the bathroom alot becuase she has nothing better to do man!
Yeah, probably. We were sitting at a piano bar watching them play. I'd get closer to her and touch her from time to time, but I think it was over before it began. Talking to her was a pain in the ass, as she'd never say anything...just ask me whatever I asked her back. Doesn't matter much anymore.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
LongDrinkofWater
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Wyldfire, great post. You've had my respect now for quite some time. I appreciate you straighforward no nonsense approach when posting. Credibility is hard to earn.......
CalmCoolAndConfident
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HES VERY RIGHT!!! Do not do this on a girl that you dont intend on being with, I made the mistake of doing this on a girl I met. I wasnt really all that interested in her but I did it anyways. I TOOK ME 3 MONTHS TO GET THAT CLINGER OFF. Be careful.Wyldfire said:
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
iqqi
Master Don Juan
Great post and tip.
iqqi
Master Don Juan
He is a she, which is why a posse of posters and even a mod ganged up on her relentlessly until her fighting back got her banned as she was deemed "too controversial", yet none of the mods would enforce the rules on the ones continuously flaming and harassing her first. You can do a post history search of her last few weeks on the forum to see this in action.scribblec said:
It is a shame she was banned, seeing as she contributed some great tips, and is even in the DJ Bible, unlike some of her attackers.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.