dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
nice.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Double her interest level with one kiss...
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Sorry for not noticing all the questions...I see that someone answered them, though...and he answered them right, so it's all good.
I didn't know this post was used for a bootcamp...
It's a good technique, though...and if done correctly, it will never fail.
I didn't know this post was used for a bootcamp...
It's a good technique, though...and if done correctly, it will never fail.
cfajason
Don Juan
A girl kissed me like this once....i still remember her...after that kiss,i started doing this myself,it works like a charm
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
That was my point. She didn't like me enough to have the way I kissed her make any difference. She got into it every other time we kissed, which is the part that confuses me. I don't know about women, but I don't kiss if I'm not interested in them to a significant degree.
Yeah, but best not to wonder. I got suspicious things weren't going well that night when she kept checking her watch and going to the bathroom every thirty minutes or so. No point in wondering why anymore...I've moved on. End of subject.
catch
Senior Don Juan
ha ha ha, mate she was checking her watch because you didnt get up to much with her... did she look bored???????Originally posted by insomniac
Yeah, but best not to wonder. I got suspicious things weren't going well that night when she kept checking her watch and going to the bathroom every thirty minutes or so. No point in wondering why anymore...I've moved on. End of subject.
if you stop advancing and making further, more intimate moves then she will start looking at her watch and going to the bathroom alot becuase she has nothing better to do man!
Yeah, probably. We were sitting at a piano bar watching them play. I'd get closer to her and touch her from time to time, but I think it was over before it began. Talking to her was a pain in the ass, as she'd never say anything...just ask me whatever I asked her back. Doesn't matter much anymore.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
LongDrinkofWater
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Wyldfire, great post. You've had my respect now for quite some time. I appreciate you straighforward no nonsense approach when posting. Credibility is hard to earn.......
CalmCoolAndConfident
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HES VERY RIGHT!!! Do not do this on a girl that you dont intend on being with, I made the mistake of doing this on a girl I met. I wasnt really all that interested in her but I did it anyways. I TOOK ME 3 MONTHS TO GET THAT CLINGER OFF. Be careful.Wyldfire said:
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
iqqi
Master Don Juan
Great post and tip.
iqqi
Master Don Juan
He is a she, which is why a posse of posters and even a mod ganged up on her relentlessly until her fighting back got her banned as she was deemed "too controversial", yet none of the mods would enforce the rules on the ones continuously flaming and harassing her first. You can do a post history search of her last few weeks on the forum to see this in action.scribblec said:
It is a shame she was banned, seeing as she contributed some great tips, and is even in the DJ Bible, unlike some of her attackers.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.