"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Double Chin? Is it possible to get rid of it?

NoMoreAFC

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Hi guys one thing im noticing as i'm getting older is that i'm getting a double chin, it's like some fat below my chin that i hadn't before. i dont know what caused it.i'm 28 so i dont know if that counts. i just really want to get rid of it cuz that makes me really unconfident with girls ( i have a hair problem too but that's another subject). does working out or a diet or something can rid me of that fat? dont tell me about expensive liposuctions and such cuz i cant afford it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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incognito42

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cut body-fat and you will lose the double chin. It wokred for me:)
 

incognito42

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Originally posted by AIR-PILOT
You're 19 though :crackup:

yea, I guess I cant say for sure whether it would work for a 28 year old. Does the average body really change that much between 19 and 28 that it would make it harder for him to cut the body fat thanm it was for me? I could see your metabolism hitting a wall at 35 or 40 but 28? Even if it has I have to think you could still give it a jump start by changing your diet and workouts
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Jimbo2k

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Originally posted by NoMoreAFC
does working out or a diet or something can rid me of that fat?
Why the hell wouldnt it

Edit, meant to put this in the same reply :down:
 
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manuva

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Of course reducing body fat in general will reduce your double chin. I have a 55 yr old client who had a triple chin, which has nearly disappeared in only 8 weeks, and all we've worked on is fat loss.

Surgery is a stupid thing to contemplate for something fixed so easily.
 
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