Dorm Girls

[nicksaiz65]

So there’s this girl in my dorm that I find pretty attractive that I’d like to get with. We know each other somewhat, I like her sense of humor and we’ve spoken a few times. How would I go about getting her? Idk if being direct and straight up asking her out is good or not.

 

[marmel75]

The next time you see her you start talking to her and then ask her to go do something with you.

She will either say yes or no. Its that simple. I'm not sure why guys try and overcomplicate their lives.

Let me give you 3 tips to keep your life as a man as simple as possible:

1) Interested women act interested
2) Interested women don't confuse you
3) Its never worth the time or effort to try and raise a woman's interest level. Spend the time and effort finding new women who are already very interested.

The reason why so many guys struggle with women is because they dont follow these 3 rules. Once you start following these rules every thing else becomes simple.

A woman doesn't text you back? No problem. Since you followed these 3 rules you have an abundance of other women to talk with.

A woman flakes out on you? No problem, you have multiple other dates set up this week or even the same day.

A woman goes cold on you? No problem, you have multiple other women that want to see you.

Never reward disinterest with time and effort on your part. Reward women who show interest with time and effort. You should always be keeping multiple women in the pipeline to replace ones that go cold.

 

[davidcarr]

So there’s this girl in my dorm that I find pretty attractive that I’d like to get with. We know each other somewhat, I like her sense of humor and we’ve spoken a few times. How would I go about getting her? Idk if being direct and straight up asking her out is good or not.

Try trusting your intuition more.

Guys threatening to shoot each other? Leave.

Girl in a dorm? No different than a girl who doesn't live in a dorm.

You are creating intellectual puzzles and social categories where none exist. Does that make sense?

If it's simple don't make it complicated.

 

[Doctor Europeo]

Tease her about whatever, give her a hard time, make fun of her, etc. At the highset point of the interaction, ask her out.
Be specific about date, time, place, etc. Only a yes or counteroffer is aceptable. Anything else you soft next her.

 

[nicksaiz65]

All good advice thanks guys