"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Dont wanna **** the ***** 'cause The ***** is too fat
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
diablo
Master Don Juan
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Master Don Juan
Well, fat ******* are like so ***** and I really don't wannta *** with them al the time you know. my ***** **** view is **** that. Take it or ******** leave **** it man. That's **** ****** all. *****, hope I *******helped!
with ***************,
AFK *********
seriously dude....wtf is your question?
I r the m4st3r 0' s4rc@sm!!1
Why do you think being with a fat girl in public is a negative effector to your social status?
Much discussion has been going on in here on this topic, yet there have only been yes or no answers.
diablo
Master Don Juan
It would have helped had the question not had every other word replaced by ****** and *******.
It shows that you can't get anything better. Even an ugly, one-armed AFC with a raging case of warts should be able to have mildly attractive friends. Even if that's not possible, he should still be able to have butt-ugly skinny girls as friends.
The question you could ask instead is "Why do you think that being with a hot girl is a positive effector to your social status?" The answer is simple. People like attractive people. People want to be around attractive people. People like looking at attractive people. People like talking to attractive people. In fact, some people even post on forums like this so they can gain insight into attracting attractive people.
Now, reverse everything that has just been said and you'll have your answer. It's harsh, and it's generalizing, but you wanted to know. People don't like fat people. People don't want to be around fat people. People don't like looking at fat people. People don't like talking to fat people. In fact, I've yet to come across any website (though I'm sure there are "fetish" sites somewhere) that people post on forums such as this so that they can gain insight into attracting fat people.
This is why it's a downer on your social status to hang out with fat people. Unless you're fat.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
AlwaysExcel
Senior Don Juan
Now I agree that having lots of attractive women hanging on you and flirting with you helps your game and social proof. If you ONLY have unattractive women hanging on you, this is a problem. But it's not the presence of the unattractive women that is the problem. It's the absence of the attractive ones. If you're truly attractive, you should have both attractive and ugly girls drawn to you. The more women the better as far as I'm concerned. You don't have to fvck the unattractive ones y'know!