"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Dont wanna **** the ***** 'cause The ***** is too fat
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
diablo
Master Don Juan
AFK Protector
Master Don Juan
Well, fat ******* are like so ***** and I really don't wannta *** with them al the time you know. my ***** **** view is **** that. Take it or ******** leave **** it man. That's **** ****** all. *****, hope I *******helped!
with ***************,
AFK *********
seriously dude....wtf is your question?
I r the m4st3r 0' s4rc@sm!!1
Why do you think being with a fat girl in public is a negative effector to your social status?
Much discussion has been going on in here on this topic, yet there have only been yes or no answers.
diablo
Master Don Juan
It would have helped had the question not had every other word replaced by ****** and *******.
It shows that you can't get anything better. Even an ugly, one-armed AFC with a raging case of warts should be able to have mildly attractive friends. Even if that's not possible, he should still be able to have butt-ugly skinny girls as friends.
The question you could ask instead is "Why do you think that being with a hot girl is a positive effector to your social status?" The answer is simple. People like attractive people. People want to be around attractive people. People like looking at attractive people. People like talking to attractive people. In fact, some people even post on forums like this so they can gain insight into attracting attractive people.
Now, reverse everything that has just been said and you'll have your answer. It's harsh, and it's generalizing, but you wanted to know. People don't like fat people. People don't want to be around fat people. People don't like looking at fat people. People don't like talking to fat people. In fact, I've yet to come across any website (though I'm sure there are "fetish" sites somewhere) that people post on forums such as this so that they can gain insight into attracting fat people.
This is why it's a downer on your social status to hang out with fat people. Unless you're fat.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
AlwaysExcel
Senior Don Juan
Now I agree that having lots of attractive women hanging on you and flirting with you helps your game and social proof. If you ONLY have unattractive women hanging on you, this is a problem. But it's not the presence of the unattractive women that is the problem. It's the absence of the attractive ones. If you're truly attractive, you should have both attractive and ugly girls drawn to you. The more women the better as far as I'm concerned. You don't have to fvck the unattractive ones y'know!