"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Dont wanna **** the ***** 'cause The ***** is too fat
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
diablo
Master Don Juan
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Master Don Juan
Well, fat ******* are like so ***** and I really don't wannta *** with them al the time you know. my ***** **** view is **** that. Take it or ******** leave **** it man. That's **** ****** all. *****, hope I *******helped!
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AFK *********
seriously dude....wtf is your question?
I r the m4st3r 0' s4rc@sm!!1
Why do you think being with a fat girl in public is a negative effector to your social status?
Much discussion has been going on in here on this topic, yet there have only been yes or no answers.
diablo
Master Don Juan
It would have helped had the question not had every other word replaced by ****** and *******.
It shows that you can't get anything better. Even an ugly, one-armed AFC with a raging case of warts should be able to have mildly attractive friends. Even if that's not possible, he should still be able to have butt-ugly skinny girls as friends.
The question you could ask instead is "Why do you think that being with a hot girl is a positive effector to your social status?" The answer is simple. People like attractive people. People want to be around attractive people. People like looking at attractive people. People like talking to attractive people. In fact, some people even post on forums like this so they can gain insight into attracting attractive people.
Now, reverse everything that has just been said and you'll have your answer. It's harsh, and it's generalizing, but you wanted to know. People don't like fat people. People don't want to be around fat people. People don't like looking at fat people. People don't like talking to fat people. In fact, I've yet to come across any website (though I'm sure there are "fetish" sites somewhere) that people post on forums such as this so that they can gain insight into attracting fat people.
This is why it's a downer on your social status to hang out with fat people. Unless you're fat.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
AlwaysExcel
Senior Don Juan
Now I agree that having lots of attractive women hanging on you and flirting with you helps your game and social proof. If you ONLY have unattractive women hanging on you, this is a problem. But it's not the presence of the unattractive women that is the problem. It's the absence of the attractive ones. If you're truly attractive, you should have both attractive and ugly girls drawn to you. The more women the better as far as I'm concerned. You don't have to fvck the unattractive ones y'know!