"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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WhiteSoledShoes

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she's avoiding it...

I'm practically telling her...and she freakin knows.....

I give her a clue thats pretty much pointless......completely obvious.......she goes away for 5 mins...comes back trys to change subject
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Alright, well I didn't log the convo, and its over....But I remember it clearly... This is pretty much what was said (no changes or biases or anything)

HER: sooooooooooo who do you like
ME: guess
HER: just tell me so I can check my answers
ME: I'll tell you if you tell me who you like
HER: No thats not.....fair.....because......im......cool
ME: okay...well how about I'll tell you the first letter, you tell me your first letter
HER: maybe
ME: thats not good enough
HER: fine, 99.9% I will
ME: FINE. THE FIRST LETTER IS: *wait*
HER: DUDE
ME: 'C' (her name starts w/ c)
HER: blah blah is away at 6:32 pm at blah blah
HER: oooooo (comes back)
ME: tell me your letter
HER: C........for chicken-out
ME: go die

some bullcrap like
HER: YOUR SO MEAN, YOU DIE

blah blah...just making small talk out of nothing..

pretty much how the rest of the conversation went...not really any different then it was before........its like she just ignored it and blocked it out...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Okay...well update. she's not really running away... I guess just shy?

So after a few conversations I've pretty much gotten to this:
Her saying "Guess who I like"
Me saying something like "Me"
Her shying away from yes or no, or saying something like "I dunno, is it you?"

can I just tell her I like her already? but how do I go about it without making for an awkward silence afterwards?
 

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You shouldn't spend your time confirming she might like you.

Take her somewhere. You know, um, try to set up a date?
 

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if she likes you then you know what to do, call her, for e.g
ring ring, ring ring, ring ring(comon pick up you bich)
her:hello?
hi there its me, i know this great bowling/coffee... place, are you freee saturday or sunday?
take it on from there
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Okay. so we are going out this weekend...so, should I have any goals in mind for this date?...I dont really know how far to try and take it on the first date.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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