"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Don't know what to do...

WhiteSoledShoes

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she's avoiding it...

I'm practically telling her...and she freakin knows.....

I give her a clue thats pretty much pointless......completely obvious.......she goes away for 5 mins...comes back trys to change subject
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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WhiteSoledShoes

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Alright, well I didn't log the convo, and its over....But I remember it clearly... This is pretty much what was said (no changes or biases or anything)

HER: sooooooooooo who do you like
ME: guess
HER: just tell me so I can check my answers
ME: I'll tell you if you tell me who you like
HER: No thats not.....fair.....because......im......cool
ME: okay...well how about I'll tell you the first letter, you tell me your first letter
HER: maybe
ME: thats not good enough
HER: fine, 99.9% I will
ME: FINE. THE FIRST LETTER IS: *wait*
HER: DUDE
ME: 'C' (her name starts w/ c)
HER: blah blah is away at 6:32 pm at blah blah
HER: oooooo (comes back)
ME: tell me your letter
HER: C........for chicken-out
ME: go die

some bullcrap like
HER: YOUR SO MEAN, YOU DIE

blah blah...just making small talk out of nothing..

pretty much how the rest of the conversation went...not really any different then it was before........its like she just ignored it and blocked it out...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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WhiteSoledShoes

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Okay...well update. she's not really running away... I guess just shy?

So after a few conversations I've pretty much gotten to this:
Her saying "Guess who I like"
Me saying something like "Me"
Her shying away from yes or no, or saying something like "I dunno, is it you?"

can I just tell her I like her already? but how do I go about it without making for an awkward silence afterwards?
 

supajsilver2

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You shouldn't spend your time confirming she might like you.

Take her somewhere. You know, um, try to set up a date?
 

Zerotwoonenine

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if she likes you then you know what to do, call her, for e.g
ring ring, ring ring, ring ring(comon pick up you bich)
her:hello?
hi there its me, i know this great bowling/coffee... place, are you freee saturday or sunday?
take it on from there
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WhiteSoledShoes

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Okay. so we are going out this weekend...so, should I have any goals in mind for this date?...I dont really know how far to try and take it on the first date.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

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