"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Don't know what to do...

WhiteSoledShoes

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she's avoiding it...

I'm practically telling her...and she freakin knows.....

I give her a clue thats pretty much pointless......completely obvious.......she goes away for 5 mins...comes back trys to change subject
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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WhiteSoledShoes

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Alright, well I didn't log the convo, and its over....But I remember it clearly... This is pretty much what was said (no changes or biases or anything)

HER: sooooooooooo who do you like
ME: guess
HER: just tell me so I can check my answers
ME: I'll tell you if you tell me who you like
HER: No thats not.....fair.....because......im......cool
ME: okay...well how about I'll tell you the first letter, you tell me your first letter
HER: maybe
ME: thats not good enough
HER: fine, 99.9% I will
ME: FINE. THE FIRST LETTER IS: *wait*
HER: DUDE
ME: 'C' (her name starts w/ c)
HER: blah blah is away at 6:32 pm at blah blah
HER: oooooo (comes back)
ME: tell me your letter
HER: C........for chicken-out
ME: go die

some bullcrap like
HER: YOUR SO MEAN, YOU DIE

blah blah...just making small talk out of nothing..

pretty much how the rest of the conversation went...not really any different then it was before........its like she just ignored it and blocked it out...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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WhiteSoledShoes

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Okay...well update. she's not really running away... I guess just shy?

So after a few conversations I've pretty much gotten to this:
Her saying "Guess who I like"
Me saying something like "Me"
Her shying away from yes or no, or saying something like "I dunno, is it you?"

can I just tell her I like her already? but how do I go about it without making for an awkward silence afterwards?
 

supajsilver2

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You shouldn't spend your time confirming she might like you.

Take her somewhere. You know, um, try to set up a date?
 

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if she likes you then you know what to do, call her, for e.g
ring ring, ring ring, ring ring(comon pick up you bich)
her:hello?
hi there its me, i know this great bowling/coffee... place, are you freee saturday or sunday?
take it on from there
read more tips
 

WhiteSoledShoes

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Okay. so we are going out this weekend...so, should I have any goals in mind for this date?...I dont really know how far to try and take it on the first date.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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