"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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WhiteSoledShoes

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she's avoiding it...

I'm practically telling her...and she freakin knows.....

I give her a clue thats pretty much pointless......completely obvious.......she goes away for 5 mins...comes back trys to change subject
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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WhiteSoledShoes

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Alright, well I didn't log the convo, and its over....But I remember it clearly... This is pretty much what was said (no changes or biases or anything)

HER: sooooooooooo who do you like
ME: guess
HER: just tell me so I can check my answers
ME: I'll tell you if you tell me who you like
HER: No thats not.....fair.....because......im......cool
ME: okay...well how about I'll tell you the first letter, you tell me your first letter
HER: maybe
ME: thats not good enough
HER: fine, 99.9% I will
ME: FINE. THE FIRST LETTER IS: *wait*
HER: DUDE
ME: 'C' (her name starts w/ c)
HER: blah blah is away at 6:32 pm at blah blah
HER: oooooo (comes back)
ME: tell me your letter
HER: C........for chicken-out
ME: go die

some bullcrap like
HER: YOUR SO MEAN, YOU DIE

blah blah...just making small talk out of nothing..

pretty much how the rest of the conversation went...not really any different then it was before........its like she just ignored it and blocked it out...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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WhiteSoledShoes

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Okay...well update. she's not really running away... I guess just shy?

So after a few conversations I've pretty much gotten to this:
Her saying "Guess who I like"
Me saying something like "Me"
Her shying away from yes or no, or saying something like "I dunno, is it you?"

can I just tell her I like her already? but how do I go about it without making for an awkward silence afterwards?
 

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You shouldn't spend your time confirming she might like you.

Take her somewhere. You know, um, try to set up a date?
 

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if she likes you then you know what to do, call her, for e.g
ring ring, ring ring, ring ring(comon pick up you bich)
her:hello?
hi there its me, i know this great bowling/coffee... place, are you freee saturday or sunday?
take it on from there
read more tips
 

WhiteSoledShoes

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Okay. so we are going out this weekend...so, should I have any goals in mind for this date?...I dont really know how far to try and take it on the first date.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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