"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Don't know what to do with the HB8 I scored with

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So lately i've been DJ-ing again, went to the clubs, had few one night stands etc... And at my favorite bar I met this HB8 who was playing really really hard to get, so hard that I just though she wasen't intrested in me that way, though we did get along really well, and ofcourse I couldn't hold my self back to still try to win her over. :) Anyway she starts calling me once and a while, which was kinda weird but she said she constantly calls all her friends so I just went with the flow. Just some regular teasing etc, like saying she wanted me, twisting her words around, making fun of her, telling her she's not my type :whistle:.

Anyway I really like djing and I really need + want to still improve, so I was planning to start DJing serieusly after my exams, now yesterdays she's calling me really late, start chatting again, and all the sudden the mood switching, and she tells me she wants me to love her :eek:, and there I was thinking before she would go for older guys etc, One more up for the home boys i guess :rockon:. Anyway I would like to start a relationship with her, but I wanna improve my DJing skills and I doubt that could work togheter, so anybody got some suggestions what i should do?
Ciao :up:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Have you kissed or f-closed her yet? If not, relationship is out of the question.
 
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Be honest.

It is alright for you to go for what you want.

Just say, "I like you and would like to be friends with benefits but I don't rush into relationships. Real love takes time."

Stuff like that.

JJ
 
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So I told the girl I couldn't bind myself yet, she understood and said she didn't want to bind eather, so I replied I also hate the obligations :D, agian she answered positive and said I would have any obligations, it would be more like an open thing, sorta friends with benefits. And there is was thinking to myself, "Credos, my main man, you're finally learning the deal buddy :whistle: :D "

ciao
 
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Jay Jay said:
It is alright for you to go for what you want.

Just say, "I like you and would like to be friends with benefits but I don't rush into relationships. Real love takes time."

Stuff like that.

JJ
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I like that! Thats a good line that could come in handy.:up:
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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