"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Don't know what to do with the HB8 I scored with

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Credos

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So lately i've been DJ-ing again, went to the clubs, had few one night stands etc... And at my favorite bar I met this HB8 who was playing really really hard to get, so hard that I just though she wasen't intrested in me that way, though we did get along really well, and ofcourse I couldn't hold my self back to still try to win her over. :) Anyway she starts calling me once and a while, which was kinda weird but she said she constantly calls all her friends so I just went with the flow. Just some regular teasing etc, like saying she wanted me, twisting her words around, making fun of her, telling her she's not my type :whistle:.

Anyway I really like djing and I really need + want to still improve, so I was planning to start DJing serieusly after my exams, now yesterdays she's calling me really late, start chatting again, and all the sudden the mood switching, and she tells me she wants me to love her :eek:, and there I was thinking before she would go for older guys etc, One more up for the home boys i guess :rockon:. Anyway I would like to start a relationship with her, but I wanna improve my DJing skills and I doubt that could work togheter, so anybody got some suggestions what i should do?
Ciao :up:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Have you kissed or f-closed her yet? If not, relationship is out of the question.
 
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Be honest.

It is alright for you to go for what you want.

Just say, "I like you and would like to be friends with benefits but I don't rush into relationships. Real love takes time."

Stuff like that.

JJ
 
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So I told the girl I couldn't bind myself yet, she understood and said she didn't want to bind eather, so I replied I also hate the obligations :D, agian she answered positive and said I would have any obligations, it would be more like an open thing, sorta friends with benefits. And there is was thinking to myself, "Credos, my main man, you're finally learning the deal buddy :whistle: :D "

ciao
 
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Jay Jay said:
It is alright for you to go for what you want.

Just say, "I like you and would like to be friends with benefits but I don't rush into relationships. Real love takes time."

Stuff like that.

JJ
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I like that! Thats a good line that could come in handy.:up:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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