"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Don't know what to do with the HB8 I scored with

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So lately i've been DJ-ing again, went to the clubs, had few one night stands etc... And at my favorite bar I met this HB8 who was playing really really hard to get, so hard that I just though she wasen't intrested in me that way, though we did get along really well, and ofcourse I couldn't hold my self back to still try to win her over. :) Anyway she starts calling me once and a while, which was kinda weird but she said she constantly calls all her friends so I just went with the flow. Just some regular teasing etc, like saying she wanted me, twisting her words around, making fun of her, telling her she's not my type :whistle:.

Anyway I really like djing and I really need + want to still improve, so I was planning to start DJing serieusly after my exams, now yesterdays she's calling me really late, start chatting again, and all the sudden the mood switching, and she tells me she wants me to love her :eek:, and there I was thinking before she would go for older guys etc, One more up for the home boys i guess :rockon:. Anyway I would like to start a relationship with her, but I wanna improve my DJing skills and I doubt that could work togheter, so anybody got some suggestions what i should do?
Ciao :up:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Have you kissed or f-closed her yet? If not, relationship is out of the question.
 
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Be honest.

It is alright for you to go for what you want.

Just say, "I like you and would like to be friends with benefits but I don't rush into relationships. Real love takes time."

Stuff like that.

JJ
 
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So I told the girl I couldn't bind myself yet, she understood and said she didn't want to bind eather, so I replied I also hate the obligations :D, agian she answered positive and said I would have any obligations, it would be more like an open thing, sorta friends with benefits. And there is was thinking to myself, "Credos, my main man, you're finally learning the deal buddy :whistle: :D "

ciao
 
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Jay Jay said:
It is alright for you to go for what you want.

Just say, "I like you and would like to be friends with benefits but I don't rush into relationships. Real love takes time."

Stuff like that.

JJ
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I like that! Thats a good line that could come in handy.:up:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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