"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Don't know what to do with the HB8 I scored with

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So lately i've been DJ-ing again, went to the clubs, had few one night stands etc... And at my favorite bar I met this HB8 who was playing really really hard to get, so hard that I just though she wasen't intrested in me that way, though we did get along really well, and ofcourse I couldn't hold my self back to still try to win her over. :) Anyway she starts calling me once and a while, which was kinda weird but she said she constantly calls all her friends so I just went with the flow. Just some regular teasing etc, like saying she wanted me, twisting her words around, making fun of her, telling her she's not my type :whistle:.

Anyway I really like djing and I really need + want to still improve, so I was planning to start DJing serieusly after my exams, now yesterdays she's calling me really late, start chatting again, and all the sudden the mood switching, and she tells me she wants me to love her :eek:, and there I was thinking before she would go for older guys etc, One more up for the home boys i guess :rockon:. Anyway I would like to start a relationship with her, but I wanna improve my DJing skills and I doubt that could work togheter, so anybody got some suggestions what i should do?
Ciao :up:
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Have you kissed or f-closed her yet? If not, relationship is out of the question.
 
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Be honest.

It is alright for you to go for what you want.

Just say, "I like you and would like to be friends with benefits but I don't rush into relationships. Real love takes time."

Stuff like that.

JJ
 
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So I told the girl I couldn't bind myself yet, she understood and said she didn't want to bind eather, so I replied I also hate the obligations :D, agian she answered positive and said I would have any obligations, it would be more like an open thing, sorta friends with benefits. And there is was thinking to myself, "Credos, my main man, you're finally learning the deal buddy :whistle: :D "

ciao
 
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Jay Jay said:
It is alright for you to go for what you want.

Just say, "I like you and would like to be friends with benefits but I don't rush into relationships. Real love takes time."

Stuff like that.

JJ
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I like that! Thats a good line that could come in handy.:up:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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