"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Don't understand what that means, wants me only for attention?
She wants to take charge. She wants you to march to the beat of her drum. She wants you to chase her and go through hoops.

That is just it. She may just want attention. And entertainment at your expense.
This is why i say withdraw all attention. Go meey new women.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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She wants to take charge. She wants you to march to the beat of her drum. She wants you to chase her and go through hoops
**** up, not going to do i keep ignoring her and talking to other chicks around campus. The funny thing is if I don't acknowledge her she in a way tries to see if I'll look at her direction
 

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**** up, not going to do i keep ignoring her and talking to other chicks around campus. The funny thing is if I don't acknowledge her she in a way tries to see if I'll look at her direction
That is exacly my point. You try to pay attention to her you get snubbed. You ignore her she tries to get your attention.

Go meet new girls. Dating should never require you to analyze everything to the point of confusion.

If you are confused. She is a waste of time
If she is interested , you won't be confused and you will be having good times.

Next
 

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That is exacly my point. You try to pay attention to her you get snubbed. You ignore her she tries to get your attention.

Go meet new girls. Dating should never require you to analyze everything to the point of confusion.

If you are confused. She is a waste of time
If she is interested , you won't be confused and you will be having good times.

Next
Yeah, there was one time last fall when her name in snapchat said typing but never sent a message, that was no mistake she probably playing games and ****
 

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Yeah, there was one time last fall when her name in snapchat said typing but never sent a message, that was no mistake she probably playing games and ****
I remember you telling us this.

Remember this.

Some girls like you. Some girls only like attention from you.

Some girls genuinely care. Some women genuinely don't care.

Some girls want to spend time with you. Some girls want you to waste your time

It sounds like she wants to keep you on a string (interested in her ) and chasing her because it is good for her ego.

Next.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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