"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Don't know what to do or how to act around her?

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Don't understand what that means, wants me only for attention?
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She wants to take charge. She wants you to march to the beat of her drum. She wants you to chase her and go through hoops.

That is just it. She may just want attention. And entertainment at your expense.
This is why i say withdraw all attention. Go meey new women.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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She wants to take charge. She wants you to march to the beat of her drum. She wants you to chase her and go through hoops
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**** up, not going to do i keep ignoring her and talking to other chicks around campus. The funny thing is if I don't acknowledge her she in a way tries to see if I'll look at her direction
 
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**** up, not going to do i keep ignoring her and talking to other chicks around campus. The funny thing is if I don't acknowledge her she in a way tries to see if I'll look at her direction
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That is exacly my point. You try to pay attention to her you get snubbed. You ignore her she tries to get your attention.

Go meet new girls. Dating should never require you to analyze everything to the point of confusion.

If you are confused. She is a waste of time
If she is interested , you won't be confused and you will be having good times.

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That is exacly my point. You try to pay attention to her you get snubbed. You ignore her she tries to get your attention.

Go meet new girls. Dating should never require you to analyze everything to the point of confusion.

If you are confused. She is a waste of time
If she is interested , you won't be confused and you will be having good times.

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Yeah, there was one time last fall when her name in snapchat said typing but never sent a message, that was no mistake she probably playing games and ****
 
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Yeah, there was one time last fall when her name in snapchat said typing but never sent a message, that was no mistake she probably playing games and ****
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I remember you telling us this.

Remember this.

Some girls like you. Some girls only like attention from you.

Some girls genuinely care. Some women genuinely don't care.

Some girls want to spend time with you. Some girls want you to waste your time

It sounds like she wants to keep you on a string (interested in her ) and chasing her because it is good for her ego.

Next.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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