"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Don't have a licence for car...no fun?

MisterMcGee

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I don't know if you have joint insurance, or realllllly crappy insurance, but Insurance for me is 7 grand a year. A 500$ a year insurance is unheard of where I live (Canada).

And I don't think one should be assuming "strong earning potential right out of college" in this economic climate.
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Captain Harlock

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6k on insurance? That's really expensive. Over here it's less than 100 euros per month I believe, for a car. I pay 20 euros every month on insurance for my bike.
 

MisterMcGee

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Yes, its expensive. If you're 16-24 that's how much it is where I live (Ontario, to be more precise).

Clearly if you have dirt cheap insurance, then get a car. But maybe seeing how expensive my insurance is will enlighten some of you naysayers to my situation - driving in my case is expensive.
 

Smack

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I have a license, but not a car. I'm a student living in the city, though, so not having a car makes absolutely no difference.
 

mothballs

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MisterMcGee said:
Yes, its expensive. If you're 16-24 that's how much it is where I live (Ontario, to be more precise).

Clearly if you have dirt cheap insurance, then get a car. But maybe seeing how expensive my insurance is will enlighten some of you naysayers to my situation - driving in my case is expensive.
Well your situation doesn't at all apply to the US... worst case somebody might be paying $3k a year here if they have a real ****ty record... $1000-$1500 is pretty common for the 18-25 crowd... and in my case, being outside of that age bracket and having a near perfect record it's dirt cheap.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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