"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Don't have a licence for car...no fun?

MisterMcGee

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I don't know if you have joint insurance, or realllllly crappy insurance, but Insurance for me is 7 grand a year. A 500$ a year insurance is unheard of where I live (Canada).

And I don't think one should be assuming "strong earning potential right out of college" in this economic climate.
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Captain Harlock

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6k on insurance? That's really expensive. Over here it's less than 100 euros per month I believe, for a car. I pay 20 euros every month on insurance for my bike.
 

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Yes, its expensive. If you're 16-24 that's how much it is where I live (Ontario, to be more precise).

Clearly if you have dirt cheap insurance, then get a car. But maybe seeing how expensive my insurance is will enlighten some of you naysayers to my situation - driving in my case is expensive.
 

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I have a license, but not a car. I'm a student living in the city, though, so not having a car makes absolutely no difference.
 

mothballs

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MisterMcGee said:
Yes, its expensive. If you're 16-24 that's how much it is where I live (Ontario, to be more precise).

Clearly if you have dirt cheap insurance, then get a car. But maybe seeing how expensive my insurance is will enlighten some of you naysayers to my situation - driving in my case is expensive.
Well your situation doesn't at all apply to the US... worst case somebody might be paying $3k a year here if they have a real ****ty record... $1000-$1500 is pretty common for the 18-25 crowd... and in my case, being outside of that age bracket and having a near perfect record it's dirt cheap.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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