"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Don't have a licence for car...no fun?

MisterMcGee

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I don't know if you have joint insurance, or realllllly crappy insurance, but Insurance for me is 7 grand a year. A 500$ a year insurance is unheard of where I live (Canada).

And I don't think one should be assuming "strong earning potential right out of college" in this economic climate.
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Captain Harlock

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6k on insurance? That's really expensive. Over here it's less than 100 euros per month I believe, for a car. I pay 20 euros every month on insurance for my bike.
 

MisterMcGee

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Yes, its expensive. If you're 16-24 that's how much it is where I live (Ontario, to be more precise).

Clearly if you have dirt cheap insurance, then get a car. But maybe seeing how expensive my insurance is will enlighten some of you naysayers to my situation - driving in my case is expensive.
 

Smack

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I have a license, but not a car. I'm a student living in the city, though, so not having a car makes absolutely no difference.
 

mothballs

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MisterMcGee said:
Yes, its expensive. If you're 16-24 that's how much it is where I live (Ontario, to be more precise).

Clearly if you have dirt cheap insurance, then get a car. But maybe seeing how expensive my insurance is will enlighten some of you naysayers to my situation - driving in my case is expensive.
Well your situation doesn't at all apply to the US... worst case somebody might be paying $3k a year here if they have a real ****ty record... $1000-$1500 is pretty common for the 18-25 crowd... and in my case, being outside of that age bracket and having a near perfect record it's dirt cheap.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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