thefuture
Don Juan
LA, CA
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Don Juans Everywhere!
- Thread starter MoAF
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
BG the HB Tamer
Don Juan
Netherlands / Randstad (**** a province ;-)) / Utrecht & Amsterdam
Sophomakhos
Don Juan
United Kingdom, England (that's right, they're not the same thing!), Oxfordshire, Oxford
Dysfunctional
Don Juan
Sweden, Stockholm, Plattan 
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
manila_boy
New Member
Australia / Victoria / Melbourne
Ghettobob
New Member
Netherlands / Noord-Holland/ Amsterdam region
Recovering AFC
Recovering AFC
SilkiSmooth
Don Juan
NYC
NYC, NY (Manhattan)
NYC, NY (Manhattan)
Blatant truth
Don Juan
Southern CT
high_roller77
New Member
- Joined
- Nov 11, 2005
- Messages
- 8
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- 0
USA / California / SFV near West Hills and Calabasas
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
fallen_eiku
Don Juan
- Joined
- May 19, 2005
- Messages
- 14
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- Age
- 40
USA / Virginia / Fairfax
Damian
Senior Don Juan
USA / California/ Palo Alto
irtesev
New Member
USA / Louisiana / New Orleans
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Clover
New Member
Denver / Thornton / Westminster / Northglenn
gunner_syl
New Member
Wisconsin
USA / Wisconsin / Green Bay, Appleton, Oshkosh, and Milwaukee
Looking for wings. Any others out there?
USA / Wisconsin / Green Bay, Appleton, Oshkosh, and Milwaukee
Looking for wings. Any others out there?
VSIDEBOY
Don Juan
UK / Yorkshire / Hull
Criminal Mind
Don Juan
- Joined
- Dec 9, 2005
- Messages
- 81
- Reaction score
- 0
Melbourne/Victoria/Australia
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.