thefuture
Don Juan
LA, CA
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Don Juans Everywhere!
- Thread starter MoAF
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
BG the HB Tamer
Don Juan
Netherlands / Randstad (**** a province ;-)) / Utrecht & Amsterdam
Sophomakhos
Don Juan
United Kingdom, England (that's right, they're not the same thing!), Oxfordshire, Oxford
Dysfunctional
Don Juan
Sweden, Stockholm, Plattan 
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
manila_boy
New Member
Australia / Victoria / Melbourne
Ghettobob
New Member
Netherlands / Noord-Holland/ Amsterdam region
Recovering AFC
Recovering AFC
SilkiSmooth
Don Juan
NYC
NYC, NY (Manhattan)
NYC, NY (Manhattan)
Blatant truth
Don Juan
Southern CT
high_roller77
New Member
- Joined
- Nov 11, 2005
- Messages
- 8
- Reaction score
- 0
USA / California / SFV near West Hills and Calabasas
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
fallen_eiku
Don Juan
- Joined
- May 19, 2005
- Messages
- 14
- Reaction score
- 0
- Age
- 40
USA / Virginia / Fairfax
Damian
Senior Don Juan
USA / California/ Palo Alto
irtesev
New Member
USA / Louisiana / New Orleans
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Clover
New Member
Denver / Thornton / Westminster / Northglenn
gunner_syl
New Member
Wisconsin
USA / Wisconsin / Green Bay, Appleton, Oshkosh, and Milwaukee
Looking for wings. Any others out there?
USA / Wisconsin / Green Bay, Appleton, Oshkosh, and Milwaukee
Looking for wings. Any others out there?
VSIDEBOY
Don Juan
UK / Yorkshire / Hull
Criminal Mind
Don Juan
- Joined
- Dec 9, 2005
- Messages
- 81
- Reaction score
- 0
Melbourne/Victoria/Australia
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.