born in brooklynUSA / NYC / NY
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
born in brooklynUSA / NYC / NY
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
USA, South Carolina, ClemsonMy Fellow DJ's,
So we’ve got a handle on ourselves, and we can finally find some guys on the same page! Because of the way forums are set up we could make finding people from our area as simple as a few keystrokes:
Just write your Country / State or Province / City and post it in this thread.
When you want to find people from the same State simply run a search for the keyword <Your State> in this forum through entire posts. The results page would show you the names of posters who’ve written <Your State> in their post. Simply click on their handle and PM them. Obviously you could narrow or widen your search respectively.
USA / New York / Buffalo
*note - make sure and put spaces in between each of the search terms
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
My Fellow DJ's,
So we’ve got a handle on ourselves, and we can finally find some guys on the same page! Because of the way forums are set up we could make finding people from our area as simple as a few keystrokes:
Just write your Country / State or Province / City and post it in this thread.
When you want to find people from the same State simply run a search for the keyword <Your State> in this forum through entire posts. The results page would show you the names of posters who’ve written <Your State> in their post. Simply click on their handle and PM them. Obviously you could narrow or widen your search respectively.
USA / New York / Buffalo
*note - make sure and put spaces in between each of the search terms