thefuture
Don Juan
LA, CA
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Don Juans Everywhere!
- Thread starter MoAF
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
BG the HB Tamer
Don Juan
Netherlands / Randstad (**** a province ;-)) / Utrecht & Amsterdam
Sophomakhos
Don Juan
United Kingdom, England (that's right, they're not the same thing!), Oxfordshire, Oxford
Dysfunctional
Don Juan
Sweden, Stockholm, Plattan 
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
manila_boy
New Member
Australia / Victoria / Melbourne
Ghettobob
New Member
Netherlands / Noord-Holland/ Amsterdam region
Recovering AFC
Recovering AFC
SilkiSmooth
Don Juan
NYC
NYC, NY (Manhattan)
NYC, NY (Manhattan)
Blatant truth
Don Juan
Southern CT
high_roller77
New Member
- Joined
- Nov 11, 2005
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USA / California / SFV near West Hills and Calabasas
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
fallen_eiku
Don Juan
- Joined
- May 19, 2005
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- 40
USA / Virginia / Fairfax
Damian
Senior Don Juan
USA / California/ Palo Alto
irtesev
New Member
USA / Louisiana / New Orleans
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Clover
New Member
Denver / Thornton / Westminster / Northglenn
gunner_syl
New Member
Wisconsin
USA / Wisconsin / Green Bay, Appleton, Oshkosh, and Milwaukee
Looking for wings. Any others out there?
USA / Wisconsin / Green Bay, Appleton, Oshkosh, and Milwaukee
Looking for wings. Any others out there?
VSIDEBOY
Don Juan
UK / Yorkshire / Hull
Criminal Mind
Don Juan
- Joined
- Dec 9, 2005
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Melbourne/Victoria/Australia
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.