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Don Juan
USA / Iowa / Bettendorf
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Don Juans Everywhere!
- Thread starter MoAF
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Let's Get Real
Don Juan
San Gabriel Valley
USA / California / Los Angeles
USA / California / Los Angeles
NorwegianDJ
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Apr 8, 2010
- Messages
- 2,553
- Reaction score
- 83
South-Africa / Cape Town
MartyMcFly
Don Juan
USA/ Missouri/ St. Louis
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
RSanders219
Don Juan
- Joined
- Dec 1, 2010
- Messages
- 196
- Reaction score
- 4
USA/Massachusetts/Boston
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
ronnie4speed
New Member
USA / Massachusetts / Boston / Rhode Island / Providence
Tyson420
Senior Don Juan
Canada / Ontario / GTA
aceofgrace
New Member
- Joined
- Jul 8, 2011
- Messages
- 8
- Reaction score
- 0
USA / Charlottesville / VA
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
roman81
Don Juan
wing
I'm in hull, can we work something out
Ragnaroc said:
I'm in hull, can we work something out
roman81
Don Juan
wing
Hey man, i'm in hull, you still looking for a wing
VSIDEBOY said:
Hey man, i'm in hull, you still looking for a wing
Masculinity
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Mar 6, 2009
- Messages
- 1,906
- Reaction score
- 547
USA / California / Los Angeles
Jonnybangbang
Don Juan
- Joined
- Aug 27, 2011
- Messages
- 23
- Reaction score
- 0
- Age
- 45
CANADA / Ontario / Hamilton
hardliquor
Don Juan
- Joined
- Apr 28, 2012
- Messages
- 10
- Reaction score
- 0
USA / IL / Chicago
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.