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Don Juan
USA / Iowa / Bettendorf
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Don Juans Everywhere!
- Thread starter MoAF
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Let's Get Real
Don Juan
San Gabriel Valley
USA / California / Los Angeles
USA / California / Los Angeles
NorwegianDJ
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Apr 8, 2010
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- 2,553
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- 83
South-Africa / Cape Town
MartyMcFly
Don Juan
USA/ Missouri/ St. Louis
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
RSanders219
Don Juan
- Joined
- Dec 1, 2010
- Messages
- 196
- Reaction score
- 4
USA/Massachusetts/Boston
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
ronnie4speed
New Member
USA / Massachusetts / Boston / Rhode Island / Providence
Tyson420
Senior Don Juan
Canada / Ontario / GTA
aceofgrace
New Member
- Joined
- Jul 8, 2011
- Messages
- 8
- Reaction score
- 0
USA / Charlottesville / VA
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
roman81
Don Juan
wing
I'm in hull, can we work something out
Ragnaroc said:
I'm in hull, can we work something out
roman81
Don Juan
wing
Hey man, i'm in hull, you still looking for a wing
VSIDEBOY said:
Hey man, i'm in hull, you still looking for a wing
Masculinity
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Mar 6, 2009
- Messages
- 1,906
- Reaction score
- 547
USA / California / Los Angeles
Jonnybangbang
Don Juan
- Joined
- Aug 27, 2011
- Messages
- 23
- Reaction score
- 0
- Age
- 45
CANADA / Ontario / Hamilton
hardliquor
Don Juan
- Joined
- Apr 28, 2012
- Messages
- 10
- Reaction score
- 0
USA / IL / Chicago
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.