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Don Juan
USA / Iowa / Bettendorf
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Don Juans Everywhere!
- Thread starter MoAF
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Let's Get Real
Don Juan
San Gabriel Valley
USA / California / Los Angeles
USA / California / Los Angeles
NorwegianDJ
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Apr 8, 2010
- Messages
- 2,553
- Reaction score
- 83
South-Africa / Cape Town
MartyMcFly
Don Juan
USA/ Missouri/ St. Louis
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
RSanders219
Don Juan
- Joined
- Dec 1, 2010
- Messages
- 196
- Reaction score
- 4
USA/Massachusetts/Boston
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
ronnie4speed
New Member
USA / Massachusetts / Boston / Rhode Island / Providence
Tyson420
Senior Don Juan
Canada / Ontario / GTA
aceofgrace
New Member
- Joined
- Jul 8, 2011
- Messages
- 8
- Reaction score
- 0
USA / Charlottesville / VA
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
roman81
Don Juan
wing
I'm in hull, can we work something out
Ragnaroc said:
I'm in hull, can we work something out
roman81
Don Juan
wing
Hey man, i'm in hull, you still looking for a wing
VSIDEBOY said:
Hey man, i'm in hull, you still looking for a wing
Masculinity
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Mar 6, 2009
- Messages
- 1,906
- Reaction score
- 547
USA / California / Los Angeles
Jonnybangbang
Don Juan
- Joined
- Aug 27, 2011
- Messages
- 23
- Reaction score
- 0
- Age
- 45
CANADA / Ontario / Hamilton
hardliquor
Don Juan
- Joined
- Apr 28, 2012
- Messages
- 10
- Reaction score
- 0
USA / IL / Chicago
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.