"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Don Juan in dating.
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Whats supposed to happen? depending on the girl many things are supposed to happen... second date? second base? who knows.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Just say NO to dinner/movie dates. They just cause confusion unless you are in a LTR. They are costly and have a low effort/IL ratio.
squirrels
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What is something you would have fun doing ANYWAY?
Mini-golf, bowling, pool, maybe a theme-park. Or if you must do a restaurant, go to some kind of theme place. For example, there's a chain called Dave & Buster's which is a restaurant/bar, but it also has billiards and an arcade midway with Skee-ball and video games. ESPN zone is good too, especially if she's athletic. Stuff like that. Or even just a picnic in the park.
Ordinary dinner = sit around and talk, and if conversation gets old, there's not much else to talk about, and little opportunity for kino.
Movie = NO opportunity for ANYTHING...except blatantly obvious kino in the dark theater. Not a good first date.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
In a nutshell, anything interactive where each of you have to do something to contribute to the evening's entertainment. Sitting around watching other people being active is nothing more than just watching a video at home (which makes more sense than spending $8.00 a ticket for a movie)Originally posted by squirrels
What is something you would have fun doing ANYWAY?
Mini-golf, bowling, pool, maybe a theme-park. Or if you must do a restaurant, go to some kind of theme place. For example, there's a chain called Dave & Buster's which is a restaurant/bar, but it also has billiards and an arcade midway with Skee-ball and video games. ESPN zone is good too, especially if she's athletic. Stuff like that. Or even just a picnic in the park.
Ordinary dinner = sit around and talk, and if conversation gets old, there's not much else to talk about, and little opportunity for kino.
Movie = NO opportunity for ANYTHING...except blatantly obvious kino in the dark theater. Not a good first date.