"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Don Juan in dating.
- Thread starter Hendon
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Whats supposed to happen? depending on the girl many things are supposed to happen... second date? second base? who knows.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Just say NO to dinner/movie dates. They just cause confusion unless you are in a LTR. They are costly and have a low effort/IL ratio.
squirrels
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What is something you would have fun doing ANYWAY?
Mini-golf, bowling, pool, maybe a theme-park. Or if you must do a restaurant, go to some kind of theme place. For example, there's a chain called Dave & Buster's which is a restaurant/bar, but it also has billiards and an arcade midway with Skee-ball and video games. ESPN zone is good too, especially if she's athletic. Stuff like that. Or even just a picnic in the park.
Ordinary dinner = sit around and talk, and if conversation gets old, there's not much else to talk about, and little opportunity for kino.
Movie = NO opportunity for ANYTHING...except blatantly obvious kino in the dark theater. Not a good first date.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
In a nutshell, anything interactive where each of you have to do something to contribute to the evening's entertainment. Sitting around watching other people being active is nothing more than just watching a video at home (which makes more sense than spending $8.00 a ticket for a movie)Originally posted by squirrels
What is something you would have fun doing ANYWAY?
Mini-golf, bowling, pool, maybe a theme-park. Or if you must do a restaurant, go to some kind of theme place. For example, there's a chain called Dave & Buster's which is a restaurant/bar, but it also has billiards and an arcade midway with Skee-ball and video games. ESPN zone is good too, especially if she's athletic. Stuff like that. Or even just a picnic in the park.
Ordinary dinner = sit around and talk, and if conversation gets old, there's not much else to talk about, and little opportunity for kino.
Movie = NO opportunity for ANYTHING...except blatantly obvious kino in the dark theater. Not a good first date.