Don Juan in dating.

[Hendon]

I'm a lil' confused here. What usually happens during a normal movie and dinner outing. Who's paying for the dinner? the movie? what's to happen during the movie and the dinner?

 

[mystik]

i dislike the movie dinner dates because it tends to be boring unless the girl spends the night. Movie/dinner at HOME is another story though. ANyway, during the date you are trying to get to know the girl better, see if she is interesting enough to take on a second date. Try doing dinner first so you can establish heavy kino, then just naturally follow through during the movie. Make small talks, if you believe in speed seduction you can run a couple of patterns.

Whats supposed to happen? depending on the girl many things are supposed to happen... second date? second base? who knows.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by Hendon
I'm a lil' confused here. What usually happens during a normal movie and dinner outing. Who's paying for the dinner? the movie? what's to happen during the movie and the dinner?

Just say NO to dinner/movie dates. They just cause confusion unless you are in a LTR. They are costly and have a low effort/IL ratio.

 

[coin]

What kind of dates are good then?

 

[squirrels]

Originally posted by coin
What kind of dates are good then?

What is something you would have fun doing ANYWAY?

Mini-golf, bowling, pool, maybe a theme-park. Or if you must do a restaurant, go to some kind of theme place. For example, there's a chain called Dave & Buster's which is a restaurant/bar, but it also has billiards and an arcade midway with Skee-ball and video games. ESPN zone is good too, especially if she's athletic. Stuff like that. Or even just a picnic in the park.

Ordinary dinner = sit around and talk, and if conversation gets old, there's not much else to talk about, and little opportunity for kino.

Movie = NO opportunity for ANYTHING...except blatantly obvious kino in the dark theater. Not a good first date.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by squirrels
What is something you would have fun doing ANYWAY?

Mini-golf, bowling, pool, maybe a theme-park. Or if you must do a restaurant, go to some kind of theme place. For example, there's a chain called Dave & Buster's which is a restaurant/bar, but it also has billiards and an arcade midway with Skee-ball and video games. ESPN zone is good too, especially if she's athletic. Stuff like that. Or even just a picnic in the park.

Ordinary dinner = sit around and talk, and if conversation gets old, there's not much else to talk about, and little opportunity for kino.

Movie = NO opportunity for ANYTHING...except blatantly obvious kino in the dark theater. Not a good first date.

In a nutshell, anything interactive where each of you have to do something to contribute to the evening's entertainment. Sitting around watching other people being active is nothing more than just watching a video at home (which makes more sense than spending $8.00 a ticket for a movie)