"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Don Juan Clothing Ideas...?

random afc

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Hello fellow DJ's. I'm looking for a great idea to create clothing that is DJ/SS related. If you can come up with any good ideas or symbols that would represent DJ's or just any kickass DJ stuff that could be made into clothing, please post it. The clothing would for DJ's only, so I'm just looking for some good ideas. Also, I'm not looking to actively market the site or to expose the entire DJ lifestyle/secrets/etc., so I'm not going to make anything that says "SoSuave.com" for example, but just looking for something that DJ's would be proud to wear. Thanks.

:eek: I need your DJ input, so please post if you have any input. Thanks again.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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WhAcKeD!

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you dont need a symbol to let everyone know your a DJ, just be one man :)
 

Seraph

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Clothes don't make the DJ. You should exude the DJ image, no matter what kind of clothes you are wearing as long as you are confident in yourself.
 

xomel

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Originally posted by random afc
I'm looking for a great idea to create clothing that is DJ/SS related. If you can come up with any good ideas or symbols that would represent DJ's
thats dumb... thats like being a poser skater who cant even skate or anything that buys a shirt with a independent logo because it skating related...

thats like some MTV shlt man.

when i was younger my brother didnt let me watch MTV. now im glad that he didnt let me watch MTV.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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karusel

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Hawaiian shirt, a golden necklace, sunglasses, skaterish short pants, sandals? :D
 

DJ Alejandro

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make sure you're comfortable.. get up and go for what's "in" to give you an idea [for a start.] and then accessorize so you could "add your own thing".

STAND OUT!!!
 

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You guys have to be kidding me...

In any case, thanks for nothing for your suggestions. Perhaps if you read the thread with an open mind and understood it before you affirmed the first guy who failed to correctly read and understand the post. That's all I have to say about that.

Anyway, if you are a smarter DJ, do you know of any symbols that would epitomize the DJ lifestyle?
 

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dress whatever, just don't dress like your mom dressed you. take cues from computer nerds/fanboys/and other geeks. don't dress like them and you're set.
 

Kineti[C]harm

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What condoms would a Don Juan wear?! I mean when you enter a girls katchiiing you gotta enter it suave right!? So I'm trying to find some condoms with a tie and buttonup shirt painted on it so it's highrolling and suave like ZORRO!!!


Dude, IF YOU WERE A DON JUAN YOU WOULD NOT ASK HOW TO DRESS LIKE ONE. You cannot project something you are not. Dress as you see fit and feel comfortable with.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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