"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Don Juan Clothing Ideas...?

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Hello fellow DJ's. I'm looking for a great idea to create clothing that is DJ/SS related. If you can come up with any good ideas or symbols that would represent DJ's or just any kickass DJ stuff that could be made into clothing, please post it. The clothing would for DJ's only, so I'm just looking for some good ideas. Also, I'm not looking to actively market the site or to expose the entire DJ lifestyle/secrets/etc., so I'm not going to make anything that says "SoSuave.com" for example, but just looking for something that DJ's would be proud to wear. Thanks.

:eek: I need your DJ input, so please post if you have any input. Thanks again.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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WhAcKeD!

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you dont need a symbol to let everyone know your a DJ, just be one man :)
 
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Clothes don't make the DJ. You should exude the DJ image, no matter what kind of clothes you are wearing as long as you are confident in yourself.
 
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Originally posted by random afc
I'm looking for a great idea to create clothing that is DJ/SS related. If you can come up with any good ideas or symbols that would represent DJ's
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thats dumb... thats like being a poser skater who cant even skate or anything that buys a shirt with a independent logo because it skating related...

thats like some MTV shlt man.

when i was younger my brother didnt let me watch MTV. now im glad that he didnt let me watch MTV.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Hawaiian shirt, a golden necklace, sunglasses, skaterish short pants, sandals? :D
 
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make sure you're comfortable.. get up and go for what's "in" to give you an idea [for a start.] and then accessorize so you could "add your own thing".

STAND OUT!!!
 
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You guys have to be kidding me...

In any case, thanks for nothing for your suggestions. Perhaps if you read the thread with an open mind and understood it before you affirmed the first guy who failed to correctly read and understand the post. That's all I have to say about that.

Anyway, if you are a smarter DJ, do you know of any symbols that would epitomize the DJ lifestyle?
 
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dress whatever, just don't dress like your mom dressed you. take cues from computer nerds/fanboys/and other geeks. don't dress like them and you're set.
 
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What condoms would a Don Juan wear?! I mean when you enter a girls katchiiing you gotta enter it suave right!? So I'm trying to find some condoms with a tie and buttonup shirt painted on it so it's highrolling and suave like ZORRO!!!


Dude, IF YOU WERE A DON JUAN YOU WOULD NOT ASK HOW TO DRESS LIKE ONE. You cannot project something you are not. Dress as you see fit and feel comfortable with.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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