"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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If we're going to break into teams I think we should do so as soon as possible, so we can get better aquainted with out teammates. Are even doing this idea? I'm not feeling the xanga blog idea, so I'll be doing mine on this message board
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I'm still debating on the xanga blog. I did the bootcamp last fall and I kind of wish I had all my entries in once place for easy access. What is it you don't like about xanga?

I don't know if anyone is doing teams. Since I don't have aim, I can't chat with anyone. What is it you want in a team mate? Are you looking for someone to follow your progress and give you feedback? I can do that.

As for posting your bootcamp stuff. I know BrotherAP is going to post the "official thread" today and we're going to have a new thread each week. I will certainly post there, even if I decide to create a blog.

Anyways, I guess since the official thread gets posted today. Bootcamp is underway.

IT HAS BEGUN!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You're damn right we are, PVSSY-EATER. I know you realize the importance of getting off this forum, off your ass, and out into the real world and actually go meet people. There's too many keyboard jockeys these days! Hopefully we'll turn at least a few of them into bonafide ladies men.

Ever Onward I posted the 'official' week 1 thread, so feel free to add to it there. It's too bad you can't get on AIM - I take it you tried the Java applets, with no success? If you're having trouble with them, it might be a pop-up blocker, and I could tell you how to get around that if you're interested.

AwNaw, if you're not feeling the blog, that's fine. I forsee diffculties if 38 people are posting field reports on the main forum all of a sudden, so it's important that the majority of people use xanga.
 
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It is the pop up blocker that's screwing me over. On every university computer I get onto I try to turn it off. I go to "tools" and "turn off pop up blocker" that never works and then I try to add the java "website" to the list of acceptable sites on the pop up blocker settings.

Any other suggestions?

Have you checked out the f.a.q. I created for week #1? I think I've covered a lot of stuff on it and it would be cool if you would contribute.
 
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Anyone wanna be on my team? [/B]
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Hey, I'll form a team with you. I'll add you to aim in a second.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I guess this thread has outlived it's usefullness.

Bump for ol' times sake.
 
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Am I too late?

Aim Hurtz2beesmart
can I join anyoen team?
 
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Is there a Myspace group?
 
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45. sharingnloving (Surrey, UK) 20
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I'm in.

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Chicago guys

To all the chicago guys. My AIM is EZeagleEZ. We should all work together at this. I'll probably be online tomorrow night at like 3am, but if not just leave me your sn's at my away message.

Lets do it boys.
 
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I know i’m late but i’m down
Count me in.
No AIM yet

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:rolleyes: Late again, sorry. :D

I know it would be a direct violation, but I feel I am prepared to jump straight ahead to week 3 with you guys, as I have made some great progress recently and I feel ready. LETS DO THIS!

BTW, everyone who has an MSN address should post up; I've already got a "DJ" group handy on mine. :D

[email protected]

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41. sk24iam(ny) 18
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44. kav_3 (AIM: chronotrigger6) (Canada) 18, 19 in a week.
45. sharingnloving (Surrey, UK) 20
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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this thread, is good for all intents and purposes, but all i see is 10 pages of getting people together and almost an entire month has gone by and i've read maybe 1 or 2 Feild Reports about events that have happend.

no more recruiting, just get to it otherwise let the thread die.
 
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Originally posted by christz
this thread, is good for all intents and purposes, but all i see is 10 pages of getting people together and almost an entire month has gone by and i've read maybe 1 or 2 Feild Reports about events that have happend.

no more recruiting, just get to it otherwise let the thread die.
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I believe there are a little less than 10 of us left and it's week 3. I'm still in it. There's definitely more than 2 people giving field reports. That much I know.
 
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im in, well too late i guess
 
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You might be a bit too late but a january 2006 boot camp sounds like a good idea.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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