"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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If we're going to break into teams I think we should do so as soon as possible, so we can get better aquainted with out teammates. Are even doing this idea? I'm not feeling the xanga blog idea, so I'll be doing mine on this message board
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I'm still debating on the xanga blog. I did the bootcamp last fall and I kind of wish I had all my entries in once place for easy access. What is it you don't like about xanga?

I don't know if anyone is doing teams. Since I don't have aim, I can't chat with anyone. What is it you want in a team mate? Are you looking for someone to follow your progress and give you feedback? I can do that.

As for posting your bootcamp stuff. I know BrotherAP is going to post the "official thread" today and we're going to have a new thread each week. I will certainly post there, even if I decide to create a blog.

Anyways, I guess since the official thread gets posted today. Bootcamp is underway.

IT HAS BEGUN!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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You're damn right we are, PVSSY-EATER. I know you realize the importance of getting off this forum, off your ass, and out into the real world and actually go meet people. There's too many keyboard jockeys these days! Hopefully we'll turn at least a few of them into bonafide ladies men.

Ever Onward I posted the 'official' week 1 thread, so feel free to add to it there. It's too bad you can't get on AIM - I take it you tried the Java applets, with no success? If you're having trouble with them, it might be a pop-up blocker, and I could tell you how to get around that if you're interested.

AwNaw, if you're not feeling the blog, that's fine. I forsee diffculties if 38 people are posting field reports on the main forum all of a sudden, so it's important that the majority of people use xanga.
 
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It is the pop up blocker that's screwing me over. On every university computer I get onto I try to turn it off. I go to "tools" and "turn off pop up blocker" that never works and then I try to add the java "website" to the list of acceptable sites on the pop up blocker settings.

Any other suggestions?

Have you checked out the f.a.q. I created for week #1? I think I've covered a lot of stuff on it and it would be cool if you would contribute.
 
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Anyone wanna be on my team? [/B]
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Hey, I'll form a team with you. I'll add you to aim in a second.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I guess this thread has outlived it's usefullness.

Bump for ol' times sake.
 
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Am I too late?

Aim Hurtz2beesmart
can I join anyoen team?
 
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Is there a Myspace group?
 
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42. s1lv3rxbull3t (CA) 20
43. animal crackers (AIM:EZeagleEZ) (Chicago 19
44. kav_3 (AIM: chronotrigger6) (Canada) 18, 19 in a week.
45. sharingnloving (Surrey, UK) 20
46.edo181(aim:edo181) NYC 19
47. herrdoktortim (Chicago) 24
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I'm in.

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34. Javelin0592 (NYC) 14
35. hyperdude112 (Netherlands) 20
36. GrandMaster (Switzerland) 18
37. Master of Seduction (Switzerland)18
38. Petercrouch [email protected] (england)
39. FilPT (Portugal) 20
40. NYC_AFC [email protected] (NYC) 22
41. sk24iam(ny) 18
42. s1lv3rxbull3t (CA) 20
43. animal crackers (AIM:EZeagleEZ) (Chicago 19
44. kav_3 (AIM: chronotrigger6) (Canada) 18, 19 in a week.
45. sharingnloving (Surrey, UK) 20
46.edo181(aim:edo181) NYC 19
47. herrdoktortim (Chicago) 24
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Chicago guys

To all the chicago guys. My AIM is EZeagleEZ. We should all work together at this. I'll probably be online tomorrow night at like 3am, but if not just leave me your sn's at my away message.

Lets do it boys.
 
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I know i’m late but i’m down
Count me in.
No AIM yet

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44. kav_3 (AIM: chronotrigger6) (Canada) 18, 19 in a week.
45. sharingnloving (Surrey, UK) 20
46.edo181(aim:edo181) NYC 19
47. herrdoktortim (Chicago) 24
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:rolleyes: Late again, sorry. :D

I know it would be a direct violation, but I feel I am prepared to jump straight ahead to week 3 with you guys, as I have made some great progress recently and I feel ready. LETS DO THIS!

BTW, everyone who has an MSN address should post up; I've already got a "DJ" group handy on mine. :D

[email protected]

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36. GrandMaster (Switzerland) 18
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38. Petercrouch [email protected] (england)
39. FilPT (Portugal) 20
40. NYC_AFC [email protected] (NYC) 22
41. sk24iam(ny) 18
42. s1lv3rxbull3t (CA) 20
43. animal crackers (AIM:EZeagleEZ) (Chicago 19
44. kav_3 (AIM: chronotrigger6) (Canada) 18, 19 in a week.
45. sharingnloving (Surrey, UK) 20
46.edo181(aim:edo181) NYC 19
47. herrdoktortim (Chicago) 24
48. thelastdj 16
49. [email protected]
50. [email protected]
51. DjDanny (Canada) 22
52. Caldus (AIM: MythrilGecko) (North Carolina) 20
53. BootMan (Belgium) 23
54. Eulogy (Québec, Canada) 17
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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this thread, is good for all intents and purposes, but all i see is 10 pages of getting people together and almost an entire month has gone by and i've read maybe 1 or 2 Feild Reports about events that have happend.

no more recruiting, just get to it otherwise let the thread die.
 
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Originally posted by christz
this thread, is good for all intents and purposes, but all i see is 10 pages of getting people together and almost an entire month has gone by and i've read maybe 1 or 2 Feild Reports about events that have happend.

no more recruiting, just get to it otherwise let the thread die.
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I believe there are a little less than 10 of us left and it's week 3. I'm still in it. There's definitely more than 2 people giving field reports. That much I know.
 
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im in, well too late i guess
 
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You might be a bit too late but a january 2006 boot camp sounds like a good idea.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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