Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Brother AP and I also agree that seperate threads are the way to go. That will organize things a little better. I also think that Brother AP should be the one to officially post them. That way we don't have a bunch of people trying to post the thread on their own. But hey, you and him can work that out.just my thoughts. if people agree that the seperate posts for each week is a good idea, then i can go ahead and create it come this friday (unless some1 else wants to, or every1 decides on some1 else to do it). i think we should post the initial exercises and the lil intro that comes with each week so people can read it on the site as well
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I did..its : redshiftat7000Originally posted by Ever onward
red shift, you didn't add your name to the list...![]()
None taken. I'm adding the screen names to my buddy list now, Later tonight if I see alot of people on I'll start up a chat.Originally posted by Ever onward
LostinNJ
No offense by the lack of faith comment. It was a movie quote. [/B]
OH I see it now, carry on then. lol.I did..its : redshiftat7000 I couldnt get the screen name "redshift"
I've tried to use aim on the university computers but I can't. It keeps saying "pop up blocker won't allow it" but I've turned the pop up blocker off on the tools drop down box.P.S. I think I have some kind of virus, so if anyone gets a message from me saying something along the lines of "Is this really you?" where "this" is a link to something. Don't click it!
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.