"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Well im 17, South American been around here for like 2 years. Did the original boot camp and failed at week 3 twice (procrastinated) Looking people in the eye and meeting new people isn't really that hard for me, its maintaining that first impression. I fell that the more people i get to know and practice my DJ skills that more the DJ mindset will become permanent. WHY would i carry through? Cause im a persistent mother****** that is ready to go out there and give my best shot :box:
LostAndConfused
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I am going to open up a new thread every week where we can report and discuss our results. I am also going to post the exercises there once again. So what you really have to do is read the articles from the BC, listen to the music and then go out and practice.
Al Moh.
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sam3083
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gtownjuan
just so suave
just so suave
Senior Don Juan
Im 17, from England, have a job, and go to school (this is a problem, as i have my final exams through May and June, but I'll try anyway). I work out and im beginning to get the body I want. Im pretty successful with girls that im introduced to, but I've been here 1 and a half years, and STILL haven't cold approached, thats why im doing this.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
Ill stick here for you guys if you need any help . Also if you are fans of routines and canned material PM me your e-mail and ill sent you an e-book full of routines , openers from Mystery Method.
Only for guys who joined BC
Killer Six Pac
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Some of the music is pretty **** though lol
Btw Sam3083 where in Australia do you live?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Read the introduction of the BC and chill. I'm going to open a thread for the first week on the 21th of May.
Al Moh.
Killer Six Pac
Deadly_Assassin
Apostle IX
bluemanson
Darles Chickens
sam3083
dice
gtownjuan
just so suave
schttrj
LostAndConfused
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
B Love
Don Juan
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
If you guys want me to, I can also post the links to the different articles each week.
New list:
Al Moh.
Killer Six Pac
Deadly_Assassin
Apostle IX
bluemanson
Darles Chickens
sam3083
dice
gtownjuan
just so suave
schttrj
PHAT Rabbit
B Love
@LostAndConfused: Could you please give us some information about yourself?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.