"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Well im 17, South American been around here for like 2 years. Did the original boot camp and failed at week 3 twice (procrastinated) Looking people in the eye and meeting new people isn't really that hard for me, its maintaining that first impression. I fell that the more people i get to know and practice my DJ skills that more the DJ mindset will become permanent. WHY would i carry through? Cause im a persistent mother****** that is ready to go out there and give my best shot :box:
LostAndConfused
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I am going to open up a new thread every week where we can report and discuss our results. I am also going to post the exercises there once again. So what you really have to do is read the articles from the BC, listen to the music and then go out and practice.
Al Moh.
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just so suave
just so suave
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Im 17, from England, have a job, and go to school (this is a problem, as i have my final exams through May and June, but I'll try anyway). I work out and im beginning to get the body I want. Im pretty successful with girls that im introduced to, but I've been here 1 and a half years, and STILL haven't cold approached, thats why im doing this.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
Ill stick here for you guys if you need any help . Also if you are fans of routines and canned material PM me your e-mail and ill sent you an e-book full of routines , openers from Mystery Method.
Only for guys who joined BC
Killer Six Pac
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Some of the music is pretty **** though lol
Btw Sam3083 where in Australia do you live?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Read the introduction of the BC and chill. I'm going to open a thread for the first week on the 21th of May.
Al Moh.
Killer Six Pac
Deadly_Assassin
Apostle IX
bluemanson
Darles Chickens
sam3083
dice
gtownjuan
just so suave
schttrj
LostAndConfused
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
B Love
Don Juan
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
If you guys want me to, I can also post the links to the different articles each week.
New list:
Al Moh.
Killer Six Pac
Deadly_Assassin
Apostle IX
bluemanson
Darles Chickens
sam3083
dice
gtownjuan
just so suave
schttrj
PHAT Rabbit
B Love
@LostAndConfused: Could you please give us some information about yourself?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.