"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Well im 17, South American been around here for like 2 years. Did the original boot camp and failed at week 3 twice (procrastinated) Looking people in the eye and meeting new people isn't really that hard for me, its maintaining that first impression. I fell that the more people i get to know and practice my DJ skills that more the DJ mindset will become permanent. WHY would i carry through? Cause im a persistent mother****** that is ready to go out there and give my best shot :box:
LostAndConfused
Master Don Juan
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I am going to open up a new thread every week where we can report and discuss our results. I am also going to post the exercises there once again. So what you really have to do is read the articles from the BC, listen to the music and then go out and practice.
Al Moh.
Killer Six Pac
Deadly_Assassin
Apostle IX
bluemanson
Darles Chickens
sam3083
dice
gtownjuan
just so suave
just so suave
Senior Don Juan
Im 17, from England, have a job, and go to school (this is a problem, as i have my final exams through May and June, but I'll try anyway). I work out and im beginning to get the body I want. Im pretty successful with girls that im introduced to, but I've been here 1 and a half years, and STILL haven't cold approached, thats why im doing this.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
Ill stick here for you guys if you need any help . Also if you are fans of routines and canned material PM me your e-mail and ill sent you an e-book full of routines , openers from Mystery Method.
Only for guys who joined BC
Killer Six Pac
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Some of the music is pretty **** though lol
Btw Sam3083 where in Australia do you live?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Read the introduction of the BC and chill. I'm going to open a thread for the first week on the 21th of May.
Al Moh.
Killer Six Pac
Deadly_Assassin
Apostle IX
bluemanson
Darles Chickens
sam3083
dice
gtownjuan
just so suave
schttrj
LostAndConfused
Master Don Juan
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
B Love
Don Juan
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
If you guys want me to, I can also post the links to the different articles each week.
New list:
Al Moh.
Killer Six Pac
Deadly_Assassin
Apostle IX
bluemanson
Darles Chickens
sam3083
dice
gtownjuan
just so suave
schttrj
PHAT Rabbit
B Love
@LostAndConfused: Could you please give us some information about yourself?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.