ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
An unfortunate truth.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Don’t be a *****, have some self-respect
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Society builds it. The laws build it. Law enforcement builds it. All our structures build it. I'm seeing a bunch of bent over, hunched over men in relationships, and I didn't see the world like that before...
sangheilios
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Is this it? If so, she is actually pretty without the makeup on but it's absolutely amazing how much of a difference it makes. Growing up the females in my family wore little to no makeup so I didn't realize how much of a difference it made until I saw girls without it on. The difference can truly be shocking haha.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
When did this stuff even change tho?
Yeah that’s her, I don’t think she’s all that. ****able, but nothing too special tbh. If I look hard enough I can find it lol but at first glance nah
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Most people, including women are "normal".
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
I'm not sure if it was always this way and I didn't notice or what. But others are saying back in the Clinton days people weren't so uptight and were more relaxed and reasonable. Better to be around.
Most of them are normal. Some do have nice bodies, but a lot of folks have nice bodies. It's for you as a man to inflate her value or disrespect yourself behind her.
sangheilios
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With makeup on she's actually pretty hot, but without it she's okay but like you said nothing special. The thing is that a lot of women look TERRIBLE without makeup on and as I mentioned it can be quite shocking to see what they truly look like.
I think every man should watch videos like this, the 8s you see at the club are in real life probably 5s without the cake face. Hell, you can't even tell what a woman's true body shape is like with all these contouring spandex they have out, push up bras, fake booties/boobs, etc.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
If they aren't fvcking you, you have nothing.... Trust me, they WANT to fvck.