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Master Don Juan
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HowUnless someone posts anything of value, I'm done here. I'll post a field report in the am from what I do tonight. Stay tuned ladies
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
HowUnless someone posts anything of value, I'm done here. I'll post a field report in the am from what I do tonight. Stay tuned ladies
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
He obviously needs to study Stoicism.This was the biggest piece of trash I read this week. Mind you I had to grade 150 essays
lol I love the part where he says...Absolutely none of what you said has any pertinence as to how to conduct yourself among men, because men don't conduct themselves in that fuccery. "Name calling, insult, engage people around you, loud, rhetorical questions, lie on the group, excommunticate, harp on insecurities, point at his face, you look poor, you sound stupid", etc That sounds like every bad woman I have dated all wrapped up in one sad, pathetic, miserable, insecure, little human being. You would do well to find some guidance bruh. I'm not saying this to insult you, well because it's just sad, but it's not fair to the rest of humanity to share the same oxygen with someone who subscribes to this type of rationale.
Exactly. He’s going to get his azz kicked if he tries to pull that kind of sh|t out in public, but then maybe I’m too grounded in reality.
Lol! For chits and giggles, please post before and after facial pictures if you decide to follow through on this.Unless someone posts anything of value, I'm done here. I'll post a field report in the am from what I do tonight. Stay tuned ladies
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
If he tried that in my little hometown in Southwestern Oklahoma he wouldn't have any face left.Lol! For chits and giggles, please post before and after facial pictures if you decide to follow through on this.
Ok princess. Keep us posted.Unless someone posts anything of value, I'm done here. I'll post a field report in the am from what I do tonight. Stay tuned ladies
Whaaaatttt?!?! South western Oklahoma?!?! Where you from bro? I'm around the Stigler area.If he tried that in my little hometown in Southwestern Oklahoma he wouldn't have any face left.
For shyts and gigs I just wanna read his field report so I can laugh at how ridiculous it is.Lol! For chits and giggles, please post before and after facial pictures if you decide to follow through on this.
I'm just a farmboy from the Altus area....Stigler? (I know it well my ex is full blooded Choctaw ) I'm amazed I survived the ordeal.Whaaaatttt?!?! South western Oklahoma?!?! Where you from bro? I'm around the Stigler area.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Yup, I know all too well. Haha. Wow, it really is a small world.I'm just a farmboy from the Altus area....Stigler? (I know it well my ex is full blooded Choctaw ) I'm amazed I survived the ordeal.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.