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Master Don Juan
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HowUnless someone posts anything of value, I'm done here. I'll post a field report in the am from what I do tonight. Stay tuned ladies
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
HowUnless someone posts anything of value, I'm done here. I'll post a field report in the am from what I do tonight. Stay tuned ladies
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
He obviously needs to study Stoicism.This was the biggest piece of trash I read this week. Mind you I had to grade 150 essays
lol I love the part where he says...Absolutely none of what you said has any pertinence as to how to conduct yourself among men, because men don't conduct themselves in that fuccery. "Name calling, insult, engage people around you, loud, rhetorical questions, lie on the group, excommunticate, harp on insecurities, point at his face, you look poor, you sound stupid", etc That sounds like every bad woman I have dated all wrapped up in one sad, pathetic, miserable, insecure, little human being. You would do well to find some guidance bruh. I'm not saying this to insult you, well because it's just sad, but it's not fair to the rest of humanity to share the same oxygen with someone who subscribes to this type of rationale.
Exactly. He’s going to get his azz kicked if he tries to pull that kind of sh|t out in public, but then maybe I’m too grounded in reality.
Lol! For chits and giggles, please post before and after facial pictures if you decide to follow through on this.Unless someone posts anything of value, I'm done here. I'll post a field report in the am from what I do tonight. Stay tuned ladies
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
If he tried that in my little hometown in Southwestern Oklahoma he wouldn't have any face left.Lol! For chits and giggles, please post before and after facial pictures if you decide to follow through on this.
Ok princess. Keep us posted.Unless someone posts anything of value, I'm done here. I'll post a field report in the am from what I do tonight. Stay tuned ladies
Whaaaatttt?!?! South western Oklahoma?!?! Where you from bro? I'm around the Stigler area.If he tried that in my little hometown in Southwestern Oklahoma he wouldn't have any face left.
For shyts and gigs I just wanna read his field report so I can laugh at how ridiculous it is.Lol! For chits and giggles, please post before and after facial pictures if you decide to follow through on this.
I'm just a farmboy from the Altus area....Stigler? (I know it well my ex is full blooded Choctaw ) I'm amazed I survived the ordeal.Whaaaatttt?!?! South western Oklahoma?!?! Where you from bro? I'm around the Stigler area.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Yup, I know all too well. Haha. Wow, it really is a small world.I'm just a farmboy from the Altus area....Stigler? (I know it well my ex is full blooded Choctaw ) I'm amazed I survived the ordeal.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.