"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Dominance in bed, need tips

mmk

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So Ive been told Im not dominant enough in the bedroom by this one girl I'm talking too. She is super dominant herself in everyday life, but looks like she wants to be the sub behind closed doors. Not really looking for super kinky, s&m type stuff but more of a take control thing I guess. Anyone have any tips or ideas/experience with this? Ive never had this complaint before...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Isko

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If I were you, I'd try to look at her like a sex slave and use her as one. Be more sexually assertive. There's the physical stuff, like pinning her down, growling, etc., but the mindset is what's important.

Stop worrying about what's going on in her head, and just start doing WHATEVER feels good to you.
 

mmk

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Lol thanks for the reply. Doing what I want is what I have been doing, guess maybe Ive been lazy with this one...
 

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Brighty said:
I'm talking about talking dirty (REALLY talking dirty, the rush that you get in your stomach when you make a nice, polite girl tell you how much she loves getting ****ed by you is ****ing indescribable), pulling on her hair, watching her twist and moan as you slowly plant your lips on every part of her as you work your way around her body, seeing her eyes widen and roll back as you thrust in while you hold her tight, smacking her ass and feeling her shudder, whispering in her ear asking her about her fantasies (one of the girls wanted to be ****ed while wearing a cooking apron) and seeing the look of pure sexual delight on her face when you oblige her fantasies...
Here, I posted this earlier today. Hopefully you can take some tips on how to be dominant. Call her a slvt. Put your hands on her in a dominant way (one hand lightly but firmly around her throat like you could choke them at any moment sometimes REALLY sets them off). Smack her ass. Throw her around. Whisper filthy sh*t in her ear.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I DO initiate different positions, smack asses, talk a little ****... guess this one just wants to turn it up.. Im up for the challenge, pun intended lol
 

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