So Ive been told Im not dominant enough in the bedroom by this one girl I'm talking too. She is super dominant herself in everyday life, but looks like she wants to be the sub behind closed doors. Not really looking for super kinky, s&m type stuff but more of a take control thing I guess. Anyone have any tips or ideas/experience with this? Ive never had this complaint before...
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Dominance in bed, need tips
- Thread starter mmk
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
If I were you, I'd try to look at her like a sex slave and use her as one. Be more sexually assertive. There's the physical stuff, like pinning her down, growling, etc., but the mindset is what's important.
Stop worrying about what's going on in her head, and just start doing WHATEVER feels good to you.
Stop worrying about what's going on in her head, and just start doing WHATEVER feels good to you.
Here, I posted this earlier today. Hopefully you can take some tips on how to be dominant. Call her a slvt. Put your hands on her in a dominant way (one hand lightly but firmly around her throat like you could choke them at any moment sometimes REALLY sets them off). Smack her ass. Throw her around. Whisper filthy sh*t in her ear.Brighty said:
sharkbeat
Master Don Juan
Did you initiate different positions?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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fred12
Guest
No think just do
easy easy
easy easy
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
links are obviously NSFW:
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www.bondage.com
Read the personal ads and blogs to get ideas. I think there is a free registration.
www.alt.com
www.bondage.com
Read the personal ads and blogs to get ideas. I think there is a free registration.
Aiken_Drum
Master Don Juan
Women NEED to be taken, that's their sexual role.
And as a man is yours to TAKE them, and you surely would derive great pleasure from doing so.
Watch a video of a lion fukking a lioness. That's what you should aim to
Here's an example, hehe http://www.berro.com/funny_pictures...fe_funny/lion_and_lioness_before_marriage.jpg
And as a man is yours to TAKE them, and you surely would derive great pleasure from doing so.
Watch a video of a lion fukking a lioness. That's what you should aim to
Here's an example, hehe http://www.berro.com/funny_pictures...fe_funny/lion_and_lioness_before_marriage.jpg