"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Dominance in bed, need tips

mmk

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So Ive been told Im not dominant enough in the bedroom by this one girl I'm talking too. She is super dominant herself in everyday life, but looks like she wants to be the sub behind closed doors. Not really looking for super kinky, s&m type stuff but more of a take control thing I guess. Anyone have any tips or ideas/experience with this? Ive never had this complaint before...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Isko

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If I were you, I'd try to look at her like a sex slave and use her as one. Be more sexually assertive. There's the physical stuff, like pinning her down, growling, etc., but the mindset is what's important.

Stop worrying about what's going on in her head, and just start doing WHATEVER feels good to you.
 

mmk

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Lol thanks for the reply. Doing what I want is what I have been doing, guess maybe Ive been lazy with this one...
 

Brighty

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Brighty said:
I'm talking about talking dirty (REALLY talking dirty, the rush that you get in your stomach when you make a nice, polite girl tell you how much she loves getting ****ed by you is ****ing indescribable), pulling on her hair, watching her twist and moan as you slowly plant your lips on every part of her as you work your way around her body, seeing her eyes widen and roll back as you thrust in while you hold her tight, smacking her ass and feeling her shudder, whispering in her ear asking her about her fantasies (one of the girls wanted to be ****ed while wearing a cooking apron) and seeing the look of pure sexual delight on her face when you oblige her fantasies...
Here, I posted this earlier today. Hopefully you can take some tips on how to be dominant. Call her a slvt. Put your hands on her in a dominant way (one hand lightly but firmly around her throat like you could choke them at any moment sometimes REALLY sets them off). Smack her ass. Throw her around. Whisper filthy sh*t in her ear.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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mmk

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I DO initiate different positions, smack asses, talk a little ****... guess this one just wants to turn it up.. Im up for the challenge, pun intended lol
 

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