"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Dominance in bed, need tips

mmk

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So Ive been told Im not dominant enough in the bedroom by this one girl I'm talking too. She is super dominant herself in everyday life, but looks like she wants to be the sub behind closed doors. Not really looking for super kinky, s&m type stuff but more of a take control thing I guess. Anyone have any tips or ideas/experience with this? Ive never had this complaint before...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Isko

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If I were you, I'd try to look at her like a sex slave and use her as one. Be more sexually assertive. There's the physical stuff, like pinning her down, growling, etc., but the mindset is what's important.

Stop worrying about what's going on in her head, and just start doing WHATEVER feels good to you.
 

mmk

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Lol thanks for the reply. Doing what I want is what I have been doing, guess maybe Ive been lazy with this one...
 

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Brighty said:
I'm talking about talking dirty (REALLY talking dirty, the rush that you get in your stomach when you make a nice, polite girl tell you how much she loves getting ****ed by you is ****ing indescribable), pulling on her hair, watching her twist and moan as you slowly plant your lips on every part of her as you work your way around her body, seeing her eyes widen and roll back as you thrust in while you hold her tight, smacking her ass and feeling her shudder, whispering in her ear asking her about her fantasies (one of the girls wanted to be ****ed while wearing a cooking apron) and seeing the look of pure sexual delight on her face when you oblige her fantasies...
Here, I posted this earlier today. Hopefully you can take some tips on how to be dominant. Call her a slvt. Put your hands on her in a dominant way (one hand lightly but firmly around her throat like you could choke them at any moment sometimes REALLY sets them off). Smack her ass. Throw her around. Whisper filthy sh*t in her ear.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I DO initiate different positions, smack asses, talk a little ****... guess this one just wants to turn it up.. Im up for the challenge, pun intended lol
 

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